Do You Know Your Love Language? You Need to!

Hey fabulous readers! Today, we're diving into the fascinating world of love languages – those secret codes that unlock the mysteries of our hearts…or result in doors being slammed shut!

Do you know your love language? Or your partners? In Gary Chapman’s Book The 5 Love Languages, The Secret to Love That Lasts, Gary introduces us to the power of know yours and your partners love language.

Discovering your love language and understanding your partner's is like having a personalized roadmap to a deeper connection. Below I’ve created a list of the 5 love languages and why knowing them is important for happy long term relationships.

1. Words of Affirmation: If sweet nothings and affirming words make your heart skip a beat, your love language might just be this gem. Expressing love through compliments and encouragement creates a vibe that's positively contagious.

2. Acts of Service: For those who believe "actions speak louder than words," this one's for you. Whether it's making a cup of coffee or tackling a chore, actions become love notes in the language of service. If you feel head over heels love from your partner when he tackles a task for you, acts of service may be your love language.

3. Receiving Gifts: If you feel cherished the most when presented with thoughtful gifts, your love language might be receiving gifts. Whether it’s flowers, jewelry or your favorite candy bar - if gifts make you feel loved then receiving gifts may be your love language.

4. Quality Time: Time is precious, and so is undivided attention. If you thrive on quality moments, sharing experiences, and meaningful conversations, your love language is likely the language of time well spent.

5. Physical Touch: If a hug, a kiss, or a gentle touch speaks volumes to you, your love language is sending out the tactile signals. Physical connection is a beautiful way to express love and if his hand reaching for yours make your heart skip a beat, physical touch may be your love language.

Why does it matter?

Knowing your love language and your partners is like having a superpower in relationships. It helps you communicate your needs and understand your partner's desires. When you both speak the same love language or make an effort to learn each other's, the connection deepens, creating a harmonious dance of love and understanding.

If you’re not sure what your love language is or your partners, take the Love Language quiz and have an open conversation with your partner.

Understanding your love language is a game-changer in building lasting connections and can help alleviate feelings of resentment and unmet needs.

Share your love language in the comments!

I’m glad you’re here,

Jill Schmidt