As someone who has experienced moments throughout my life of feeling powerless in a relationship, in my personal life, at a career, and even as a parent, I understand how frustrating it is when you can’t figure out what you’re supposed to be doing. With a lot of work I dug myself out of my meaningless mess and found my purpose. The crazy thing is, it was there all along I was just allowing other people to demean it or take it away.

The most harmful part of losing our sense of purpose we can become negative, feel insignificant, and our engery changes blocking our ability to attract the right people and opportunities into our life.

When I finally realized that I needed to get back to myself and my purpose I began a journey of self discovery back to myself. That journey also included peeling layers away that I no longer wanted in my life. I couldn’t stand how negative, depressed and miserable I felt. Getting lost changes you but you CAN find your pieces and add new, better ones to them.

If you’ve been feeling like you’ve lost your passion, your reason for waking each new day, the list below can help you find your why and reignite your spark!

1). Write a letter to yourself. I know, it sounds corn, but I’m telling you it’s one of the best things I’ve ever done! Tell yourself everything that you want to be, what excites you, and what would make you want to get out of bed every morning ready to embrace the new day. No judgment no negative. Just EVERYTHING that you feel you can be. You feel those things because you already are them you just need to ignite that passion. If you have trouble writing or feel unsure think about what you wanted to be when you were a child and things you did that came natural to you and brought you joy.

2). Spend time with people who lift you up and who are doing things that excite you and make you feel passionate about your why. When you spend time with like-minded people you’ll gain inspiration, support, and great knowledge from hearing their stories. They say we’re the equivalent of the 5 people we spend the most time with and I believe that! Think about your circle. Are they inspiring, motivated and supportive? It’s important to remember that anyone can fit in but to live your best life you need to be where you belong.

3). Stay grounded. When you’re shifting into changing your mindset to build a life that you love some people that are close to you will try to deflate your enthusiasm. Discovering your purpose often means taking time away from people you once spent a lot of time with. When you make yourself less available to people who sabotage your happiness you’ll naturally be able to remain grounded in your goals.

4). Stop caring about the opinions of others. That inner calling that you have, that passion that keeps nagging you, that itch that you have, is your purpose. We all have something that we need to contribute to the world. Just because it’s not suited for your friend or a sister or someone that you care about doesn’t mean it’s not meant to be shared with others. When you are met with resistance or judgement that’s another call to stand tall with your story, your creativity and your passion for honoring yourself.

5). Create a daily ritual that’s only about connecting to YOU. Make part of your ritual time to express gratitude. Gratitude shifts our mindset and energy into one of positive and graciousness. Whether it’s through journaling, prayer, or simply writing a letter to yourself. When you express gratitude, you will also find personal insights that can deeply contribute to igniting your purpose. Taking quiet time every day to listen to yourself will help you stay grounded in your why and recognize signs in your everyday life that you’re on the right path or that you’ve strayed.

6). Become a warrior of your purpose. When you become aware of your why you’ll become fiercely protective when it comes to the nonnegotiable and boundaries that allow you to live your life in peace. When you stray from your path you’ll be aware of the signs, people, and interactions that are pulling you backwards. When you claim your passions as part of you and make a conscious effort to protect them, you become a warrior for your purpose.

The more time I commit to becoming me, the person I was meant to be before my magic was snuffed out, the more my purpose becomes engraved in my heart and mind. If you commit time to being alone with your thoughts your purpose will naturally come to you. And I want you to experience the peace and self love that comes from finding yourself too! Your why is already there waiting for you to listen. She’s been there, open up your heart and go get her! The process can be a tough one if your have a past to heal and that’s why I’m here. Empowering others and being creative is my purpose.

What’s holding you back? Comment below 👇 and please share with a friend.

I’m glad you’re here,

Jill Schmidt